Meet the Mission Thrive Summer Crew Leaders

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Mission Thrive Summer crew leaders work alongside the program’s youth participants, leading, teaching and mentoring them. Get to know our 2015 crew, Morgan, Kyle, Lydia, and Jeremy:

MORGAN

  • Education:  BA, Elementary Education, Morgan State University
  • Hometown:  Baltimore
  • Why Mission Thrive:  I want to get some more teaching experience.
  • Career Goals:  To be an administrator in education
  • Enjoys about Mission Thrive: Training in nutrition and mindfulness

KYLE

  • Education:  BS, Environmental Studies, Dickinson College
  • Hometown:  Baltimore
  • Why Mission Thrive:  I want to teach kids about all aspects of food, from growing to eating.
  • Career Goals:  To build communities around farms
  • Goal for the Summer:  To share my passion for food with all the participants and get more involved in my community
  • Enjoys about Mission Thrive:  Meeting new people and learning new and engrossing perspectives

LYDIA

  • Education:  BA, Child and Family Studies, Berea College;  MPH, Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health
  • Hometown:  Knoxville
  • Why Mission Thrive:  I want to continue this type of work in the future.
  • Career Goals:  To help children, youth and their families through nutrition and food
  • Goal for the Summer:  To positively impact my crew and learn from them as well
  • Enjoys about Mission Thrive: Getting to know all the great people who help to make Mission Thrive a reality

JEREMY

  • Education:  George Washington University
  • Hometown:  Washington, DC
  • Why Mission Thrive:  I’m passionate about creating local, sustainable food sources.
  • Career Goals:  To continue to learn about my passion—health and fitness—and educate others about it
  • Goal for the Summer:  Share my passion for food with all the participants and get more involved in my community
  • Enjoys about Mission Thrive:  Learning all the interesting farming techniques

Developing safety, persistence, trust

Healing is facilitated through safety, persistence, and trust.

  • Persistence: “People did not simply progress through this sequence and experience healing. The healing journey was a recursive, back and forth process. They found helpers, used the skills/resources that those helpers provided, found other helpers that provided more resources and used those skills and resources. As this process continued, people experienced a gradual amelioration of their suffering. Although many despaired at times, all demonstrated the quality of persistence—they refused to give up.”
  • Safety & Trust: “To connect to helpers, it was essential for people to feel safe in those relationships and able to trust that the person would be a helper and not a barrier to healing. Persons whose wounds included a violation of trust were especially careful about testing the safety of new relationships.”

Acquiring Resources

Resources support us as we heal. They include reframing, responsibility, and positivity. “Making connections enabled participants to acquire and refine resources and skills that were essential in their healing journey. People also brought their own personal strengths to the journey.”

  • Reframing: “A particularly important skill was the ability to reframe—that is to look at suffering through a different lens.” This does NOT mean minimizing trauma or pain, but rather it often means the opposite: understanding what happened was wrong, unfair, or uncontrollable and that we are not to blame for it.
    • “I think I kept trying to convince him I was crazy. And he kept saying, ‘No, you’re not crazy.’ […] You wouldn’t necessarily say a Vietnam Vet was crazy. You’d say they are responding like you’d expect to extraordinary circumstances.”
    • “I’m not the only one who have [sic] this problem. A lots, millions of people, you know. […] They don’t have nothing to do with that. I guess I have to live.”
  • Responsibility: While we don’t have control over what happened to us, we are the only ones who can help ourselves heal. “A third essential resource that people acquired or refined was the ability to take an appropriate amount of responsibility for their healing journeys. They participated actively in the process of healing. Once again, some participants already had developed this skill, and some acquired or refined it from their helpers.”
    “You need a lot of energy and a lot of work … it takes a lot of work. It doesn’t just happen. It’s not like a magic wand.” This patient understood that they had to actively participate in the healing process.
  • Positivity: “Another resource that people acquired or refined during their healing journey was choose to be positive—that is to have some optimism about their situation.” People have varying predispositions to positivity. In the study, positivity was important in helping people heal. This doesn’t mean a toxic positivity, but rather simply finding some good in life and feeling hopeful about our situations.

Helping Relationships

“Connection to others was an essential part of all the healing journeys.” Humans are social creatures, and even the most introverted of us need close relationships. Friends and family add meaning and value to life and help support us, in good times and bad. When we experience relational trauma, relationships can feel scary, but reestablishing safety and trust in relationships is where the healing happens. (To be clear, we do not mean reestablishing safety and trust with abusers, but rather finding other healing relationships.) “When safety and trust had been established, people were able to connect with helpers. The nature of the behaviours of helpers that fostered healing ranged from small acts of kindness to unconditional love.”

  • “Moving from being wounded, through suffering to healing, is possible. It is facilitated by developing safe, trusting relationships and by positive reframing that moves through the weight of responsibility to the ability to respond.”
  • “Relationships with health professionals were among these but were not necessarily any more important to the healing journey than other kinds of helpers, which included family members, friends, spirituality and their God, pets, support groups, administrators, case workers and supervisors.”

Healing

Healing probably means different things to different people, but one definition that emerged from the study is: “The re-establishment of a sense of integrity and wholeness.” Healing was an emergent property that resulted from each individuals’ complex healing journey, a result of bridged connections between resources and relationships. Healing, in this sense, does not mean cured—none of the study participants were cured of their ailments—”but all developed a sense of integrity and wholeness despite ongoing pain or other symptoms.” In varying degrees, “they were able to transcend their suffering and in some sense to flourish.” When we begin to heal, we find increased capacity for hope, renewed motivation to help others, and are more able to accept ourselves as we are.

Suffering

Suffering is the ongoing pain from wounding. There is debate about whether or not one actually needs to experience suffering on the path to healing.

Wounding

Wounding happens when we experience physical or emotional harm. It can stem from chronic illness or by physical or psychological trauma for which we do not have the tools to cope, or a combination of those factors. “The degree and quality of suffering experienced by each individual is framed by contextual factors that include personal characteristics, timing of their initial or ongoing wounding in the developmental life cycle and prior and current relationships.”